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Anyone got any advice for me I NEED HELP
@Arya Dezaray
I don't know what to say but if you ever need to talk you can message me. I'll be here for you!
You can also always message me! I'm really sorry you have to go through that, no one should have to.
These are probably all things you've either heard or tried before but:
Write things down. Anything you want to get out of your head, write it down. If you want to erase it, what I used to do is write it all down and then burn or tear up the pages that I didn't want to see anymore. Sometimes it helped, sometimes not so much but it might be worth a shot.
Talk to someone that you can trust! If you want my phone number and want to text me ever, feel free to message me and I will be happy to talk.
Find something you really enjoy doing that keeps you occupied so that you can always have something to do. This could be multiple things, from Sudoku or wordsearches to writing music or poetry, or stories or whatever.
Think of one thing you like about yourself daily. Something like, I look good in this outfit, or I like my hair today and then ignore everyone else that tries to put you down. Concentrate on what makes you feel good!
All you need to remember that there are SO MANY people in the BVB Army that will listen to you and give you advise and basically be here for you (including myself) don't listen to what anyone else says and what I've been told to do is get soap (or lipstick) and write a list your mirror (or your bathroom mirror?) and write everything that you, or anyone else, loves about you so that every day you can look at all of those things and realize that you ARE gorgeous. you ARE the perfect weight. you ARE strong. and you shouldn't change for anyone else and be normal because being normal is boring. be your unique self because there will be someone out there who loves you for YOU <3
@xUsernameGoesHerex
Thank you allot and i will look in the mirror and say that XD i am so glad i have you guys to make me remeber who i am
@Arya Dezaray
No problem love :) The best thing I think for you to do is not change who you are for anyone else (NOTE: it's really embarrassing when one of your family members calls you up on it! LOL)
ikr my aunt and unkle hate that im gothic because they think that im a saitan worshiper or something ahha lol eheheheheheheheheh lol and i wont change myself for anyone thank you
@Arya Dezaray
I am so sorry you have to go through that. Believe me when I say that I know how you feel. I have been in the hospital 5 times in the past 2 years for suicide attempt and action. It sucks, it really does. Here are some things I do when I feel like that.
- I write. I come on here to escape the pains of everyday life because I get to be around people who have had similar experiences that I have had. I can relate to people on here, and that makes me feel accepted. I also love reading the stories on here because so many people are great writers and have tons of potential, like yourself.
- Talk to people about how you are feeling. Girl, you know you can message me whenever you want, because being the dork I am, am nearly on here 24/7 (what it feels like anyways). I will give you the best advice as possible. As Erylis said, I can give you my number and you can talk to me anytime.
- Do something your passionate about. If you put everything into what you love, no one can knock you down.
I hoped this helped. Stay strong and know you are accepted, and will always be accepted. As Andy says, stand up for what you believe in, even if your standing alone. I love you, and message me anytime. Bye doll. ;)
@Andy'sSoul
thank you so so much just konwing that i have you guys makes me actually for the first time feel like im worth something and i will talk to you. and just konw that if you ever need to talk you can messege me too and im on like 24/7 too hehe lol and yes it did help. thank you alot *hug*
@Arya Dezaray
Hey ugly. How's it going. Are you talking to that fag, Andy's soul? Damn, I guess this is what the world is coming to, huh?
okay so i just got out of Richard young witch is a mental hospital because i tried killing myself and i still feel the same way and i hate this feeling everyone at school is telling me that im just a Gothic freak and no one wants me and i believe them. I don't know what to say back to them because i feel like there right. i just need some advice on what to tell these people to try and get them to just stop. If you have any advice for me PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME I NEED IT I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THIS WAY ANYMORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
3/15/14