Our Final Goodbye

First off, I love this author and have nothing against them.
I usually just ignore it, but this time I though I should say something because it could trigger self-harmers


Recently, @anathema posted this comment:
'If you cut on your wrist, you are, more or less by definition, asking for attention, on a conscious level or not. If you did not want that, you would not have cut somewhere so visible and also so triggering to others that suffer from the same problem. Whether you realize it or not, it is a "cry for help," and anyone that is not a moron will interpret it as such. You do not want scars later in life from doing that. You will be heavily discriminated against in the workplace as well as socially. Yes, I speak from experience, if that matters to you, but that's besides the point. Find a different coping mechanism. Also, you should stop trying to fix anyone else's problems. They are their problems to fix. Just say, I love you, I support you, but you must be strong and learn to live your life effectively on your own.'
On @Raye. On her story 'Little Miss Suicide'
Here is what I have to say to @anathema!

First off, there are many forms of self-harm.
1. Scratching or pinching
2. Impact with objects
3. Cutting
4. Impact with oneself
5. Ripped Skin
6.Carving
7.Interfering with healing
8. Burning
9. Rubbing objects into the skin
10. Hair-Pulling
Here's where you can read about them:
http://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/self-injury/10-ways-people-self-harm-self-injure/
Ok, now here's what I really have to say to you @anathema
You really piss me the fuck off! I am a self-harmer myself. You are NOT asking for attention! When you are so fucking sad and want to feel something other then emotional pain. In the fucking moment, you do not stop to think! We don't think of a motherfucking plan! We don't choose where to fucking cut! We don't even choose to cut! It fucking happens! It makes us feel so much fucking worse and beat our selves up even fucking more when someone we really care about see's them! Other self-harmers don't fucking get triggered by seeing a fucking cut! It just make's us want to tell the fucking person that we are there and that we love them! Not everyone thinks its a fucking 'cry for help' either! Most people think its a fucking cry for attention! and your fucking ass saying 'moron' isn't fucking helping! In a way, your calling the self-harmer a moron, just because we don't see it as a 'cry for help'! Only if you cut to deep, there will be a scar. You saying 'You will be heavily discriminated against in the workplace as well as socially.' does not help either! It puts a person down for being 'different' than others. Ya Discriminated means different! And you can only be refused a job in an military work if you have many self-harm scars! 'Find a different coping mechanism.' many coping mechanism's only work for a short period of time!
'Also, you should stop trying to fix anyone else's problems. They are their problems to fix. Just say, I love you, I support you, but you must be strong and learn to live your life effectively on your own.' This is telling the person that your not fucking there for them!
You need to learn what to say if you are speaking from experience: 'Yes, I speak from experience, if that matters to you, but that's besides the point.' you know that the fucking message you posted (show in bold at the top) can trigger someone!
You are to non-experienced to speak about self-harm!
Oh and a 'cry for help' IS NOT cutting on the wrists! Its posting pictures of the shit on the internet!
I also call this a 'cry for attention':'Yes, I speak from experience, if that matters to you, but that's besides the point.'

I DO NOT support any form of self-harm
Raye, sorry for posting this comment. I only did it because that stupid fucker up there. I need self-harmers to know not to listen to the piece of shit up there.
I know that you have been depressed lately, sorry if that piece of shit triggered you in anyway.
I ANYBODY want to talk to SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, MESSAGE ME!!!!!
Love You Guys!
Love You All!
-xoxo Frank

Notes

Sorry for the rant, @anathema really pissed me off! I was so pissed off that I was shaking! I was lucky to type all of that in lest than 40 minutes!
Should I start doing:
Love You Guys!
Love You All!
Stay Safe!
-xoxo Frank
Tell me if you think I took this to far, or if you would have done the same thing.
Love You Guys!
-xoxo Frank